ytd i wanted to strangle this little kid.
today she appeared in front of me, i still wanted to strangle, ok not really strangle but i wanted to plant alot of balukus in her small but clever head. i told her tt tml i'll bring a very long cane tml, and she said in chinese,
'u want to beat me ar',
me(joking),'YES!',
she: 'orh, daddy beat me very hard de, beat till i bled.'
me stunned bcos i didnt expect it,
and she went on, 'daddy always beat me n mummy, very pain...police come my house den he stop' den her eyes became watery, its kinda rare sight bcos she's quite a toughie, she dont cry, not lyk other 5 yrs old i've seen.
n then i wasnt angry w her anymore, i jus sympathised her situation and made her do the pinky promise tt she wont spoil my stuff anymore, bet she'll forget it but wadeva, kids are just kids.
i think she wasn't suppose to tell me, but being a kid again, they just say everything they can think of. she added, ' if daddy noe i tell other people, he'll beat me n mummy again.'
sighs...
i told her to call 999 next time it happens again, not such a gd advice but what else can she do, kick her father in the groin area???
girl: call 999, pass the phone to u ar?
me: ...
then i gave her my no., ask her call me.
after she left, i thought, no wonder she doesnt cry, bcos nothing hurts more than her own father giving her a bashing tt she dun deserve.
i dunno how common is domestic violence here, but i wish singapore lawmakers would make a tougher law on this one. like castrate their balls?, tt will b impossible but that's still not enuff compared to the emotional n physical trauma that their victims have to go thru.
the irony is, these muthafuckers are doing it to their loved ones.
u wont harm a stranger, but u'll harm ur own blood.
i always think that its uncool, cruel.. for guys to lay their finger on girls. so if u're one, u lose whatever respect i have for u, _|_ u for tt, _|_ ur parents for not teaching u the right way of treating girls, no matter how nice u may appear to be. i wouldnt have a guy fren lyk tt.
tts it.